It’s amazing how often people say, “I’m looking for my person, partner, soulmate, spouse, etc.”

It’s 2025, we have A.I. and rockets, and nobody has developed a matchmaking software that puts soulmates together

I started coding something recently, a Tinder- like swiping app to match people.

The gold is in the algorithm and parameters. Most matchmaking apps connect you on surface level personality traits: movies you enjoy, where you live, whether or not you drink alcohol, your dream vacation, etc.

It is possible to infer things about a person from this, but it leaves most of us wanting.

Then it gets interesting, because people who are into depth have all the same interests: shadow work, regenerative farming, sovereign money, embodiment, awakening, intimacy, art, etc.

So the idea of matchmaking based on interests even falls away.

We need a software that can understand the evolutionary unfolding of consciousness, how it moves through and as an “individual” human being, and what human beings, brought together, will glisten, individually, in relationship, and as part of the larger Whole.

Does this require Awake Intelligence, as opposed to Artificial Intelligence?

What algorithms can understand latent potentials in relationships and support the manifestation of ones that ought to be manifested?

Are coherence measuring devices needed to measure vibrancy scores in relational fields?

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Matchmaking Soulmates